This year, I would like to offer my services as divine chastity support for Locktober. We’re a little over a week into the month, so I’m sure those of you who are taking part have a good grasp on what you’d like to achieve by the end of it. Like many of you, BDSM and kink are as much about the journey as they are the destination for me. There’s no one size fits all way to do either and with so many perspectives on the topic, I understand that your chastity support is contingent upon your view of chastity.

Perspective Based Chastity Support

For many, this month is all about orgasm denial via being locked in a chastity cage or device, and/either ‘testing’ their own sexual endurance or having it tested by a Dom/me whilst locked. The support I offer people whose Locktober goals align on this level includes femdom orgasm denial, cock teasing, and sexual endurance testing.  Conversely, for folks who aren’t all that into physical chastity, Locktober is about denial based on willpower along with emotional and mental discipline. If your goals for this month align with chastity on this level, my support for you looks like bondage techniques, creation of a denial diary, and erotic exposure.

Supporting You Wherever Your Path Leads

Now, that we’ve determined what my support for you looks like…what’s next? As Locktober wears on, you’re going to hit your limit. A LOT. Probably.  Some of those limits are hard (red flags, no-no’s, non-negotiables) and some of them are soft (mental blocks, discomfort stemming from past hurt or trauma, personal fears). If those limits are hard, I’d be happy to help you adjust your expectations for the month ahead and support you based on your new chastity goals. If those limits are soft, I can act as your sounding board to help you get to the bottom of your soft limit. Together, we’ll figure out the best course of action to help you push beyond it. Regardless the limit, I’m going to encourage you to be fearless as you plumb your internal depths, motivate you to resist when temptation arises, and help you re-focus if you happen to stumble.

Above all else this month, I hope your Locktober is as fun as it is revelatory. Until next time,