After spending some time recovering from all the kinky hijinks, I got up to last month, I’m back and ready to kick off Hot Girl Summer right! To start, I’m celebrating 2 years of femdom fantasy creation here at LDW this month. And nothing gets me in my ‘Hot Girl Summer’ feels quite like good music, a refreshing drink, and getting paid to talk about freaky shit. Since it’s so effing hot right now, I’ve changed my schedule to optimize my chances for such intimate conversations with dirty-minded mid-night owls, weekend wankers, and mid-morning masochists. Read on ahead if you’d like to learn my fave refreshing drinks to sip on, what’s on my summer playlist, and how to have the best phone sex with me during this sizzling summer.
The Best Phone Sex
The best phone sex, in my opinion, consists of three necessary components: Connection, Desire, and Patience. Connection is the most important since it’s pretty much a requirement since all this is being done at a distance. Whether we’re sexting, one-way camming, or talking on the phone, being able to connect in the tech sense is just as crucial as connecting in the human sense. Recognizing an aspect of your kink, sexuality, or personality in another goes a long way in building desire. Desire can be immediate, but it’s more like a good sauce in that it needs to simmer a bit in order to achieve optimal flavor. And the key to achieving optimal flavor, both in terms of cooking enjoyable meals and crafting quality sexual experiences virtually, is Patience. Patience in this case being prepared to take our time and resisting the urge to rush or hurry. With these three elements combined, the best phone sex with me is all but assured.
Quenching My Thirst
If you’ve listened to the ‘Meet the Mistresses of FemDom Fridays!‘ episode of Kinkology, then you already know how I feel about color changing martinis. They’re as tasty as they are pretty…just like me! They also have the added distinction of being one of my favorite drinks to sip on as the heat rises or after the sun goes down. Not all of them are for getting tipsy; for instance, cucumber mint water is a cool and refreshing libation perfect for overworked vocal cords. Two of my preferred potations make the transition from daytime liquid coolers to sophisticated nocturnal sips, seamlessly. I’m speaking of course about fruited lemonades and teas with a shot or two of any clear spirit or summery liquor added to ’em. Since nothing quite loosens my tongue or enlivens my mood during summer like a good drink, I try to keep one of these handy sans booze if I’m on the clock.
My Soundtrack to Summer
When I’m not on the phones having the best phone sex, I plan on shaking my ass and celebrating Pride Month. With those goals in mind, I set about building the soundtrack to my summer. I just had to add a slow downed, almost gospel rendition of Sylvester’s ‘Mighty Real’ by Moses Sumney, an iconic queer artist whose music helped me better understand aromanticism and gender fluidity. My favorite version of ‘Swoon’ by the Chemical Brothers made the cut, as well as ‘Palm Trees’ from Volcano an especially good album from the band Jungle. I chose it because I remember the Bob Fosse-esque choregraphed visuals that accompanied the album’s release. Now, I plan on adding more songs to this playlist over the course of the season. My goal is to add a song for each of the days of Summer, 106 total for 2026, so feel free to keep up with my additions below:
If you’re catching the vibe of my playlist, feel free to let me know in the comments of this post.
Also, if you have a song that you think belongs on here, put it in the comments, too!
Until next time,
Yours Indulgently,
Goddess Meshelle ✨
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