The biggest take away from June 19th’s episode of FemDom Fridays is that half an hour isn’t near enough time to dig into a topic as extensive as Gender Euphoria. We were able to get into what Gender Euphoria is, and some ways to experience it, before briefly touching on why acknowledging and recognizing it is so important. For this post, I wanted to focus on the parts of Gender Euphoria we weren’t able to fully discuss. More specifically, ways to create space for our trans and non-binary community here at the Enchantrix Empire to express and practice cultivating Gender Joy. The kinky options mentioned here can be experimented with on your own, or privately to start. However, you don’t have to go at this alone and if you’re open to it, consider these as femdom assisted forms of gender joy cultivation, as well.

Pet Play/Roleplay

Without going into too many details about pet play itself, just know that engaging in this type of kinky roleplaying is a spectacular avenue for the kind of self-actualization that can lead to gender euphoria.  Roleplaying like this removes gender so the submissive or player can act on or embody aspects of themselves that they otherwise wouldn’t, thus providing the requisite safe space to explore themselves fully. Given time this type of play can be instrumental in shifting one’s internal perspective bringing clarity to aspects of their personality or deeply held beliefs about gender that they couldn’t face without femdom assisted means or the kinky knowledge acquired through such exploration.

Affirmations To Promote Gender Joy

Despite the misguided belief that words are ‘just words’, the fact remains that the things we say out loud have an impact on how we think and feel about ourselves. That’s why it’s so important to speak about ourselves and others with thoughtful intention. After all, when we say certain things about ourselves and others long enough, we (and they) start to believe it. So why not create a practice of saying things about yourself out loud that affirm who you truly are? Genuine words and phrases that help us more readily accept the truth of your being while cultivating a joyful internal head/heart space. This post contains a few ideas to get you started, but rest assured that the Mistresses and dominant women of LDW are here to assist you if needed.

Femdom Assisted Self-Creation

Just as there is no singular way to express one’s gender, there is no singular way to express one’s dominance. As femdoms, we each have our own set of skills that we bring to the pillory, and we each make use of them to achieve certain goals for our subs/clients/pets. In order to get the most out of a relationship or connection with us, however, you need to be able and willing to do exactly what we ask of you. We may be in charge, but we’re ultimately on your side. You’ll be setting the goals we work towards, and we’ll use our femdom skills to make sure you have what you need to achieve them. So, if you charge us with helping you to create your ideal self, we will do just that.

This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the ways the femdoms and dominant women of Enchantrix Empire can assist you in cultivating gender joy. Do you have a specific idea or way you’d like a femdom to assist you in creating more opportunities to experience Gender Euphoria? Leave me a comment down below! And if you have any questions regarding this topic, feel free to use any of the ways listed below to contact me.

Until the next blog post, Happy Pride!

Yours Indulgently,

Goddess Meshelle ✨